I will try and cut this short me and my partner have been together for 10 years …

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I will try and cut this short me and my partner have been together for 10 years her younger brother we had to take in to our home due to there parents passing as he used to live with his parents, my partners other brother lives over 200 miles away, we took him in to our home to try and get him on the straight and narrow so he can start to get his own place, baring in mind hes always had his arse wiped hes never had to do house chores before or never had to cook before hes got an addiction to his computer hes on it 24/7 seven days a week. Me and my partner have had no end of arguments about him for instance i will mention that he needs to start helping around the house his personal heigene isnt the best either he 31 years of age so hes not a child but he acts like one. We have sat him down and have had no end of words with him about helping out he says he will but doesnt stick to it he will do if for a day n then it stops, we just go around in circles with him n i cant ever see him changing weve had him at ours now for 4 yrs hes on his computer day in day out he will stay up all night go bed in the day n get up at night to go back on his computer, he does pay his way but its causing friction between me and my partner we had a massive fall out over him at the weekend and i was ready to leave but im not going to ruin my relationship of 10 years over this, am i in the wrong to say to my partner he will have to leave and get his own place ? I would just like other peoples views on this please sorry for any spelling mistakes x
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