I’m just wondering on others opinions of this as I’m not sure if I’m in the wron…

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I’m just wondering on others opinions of this as I’m not sure if I’m in the wrong or not. I have 3 young children and I don’t have any support with them. I haven’t spoken to my mum or dad in years and my oldest 2s family are not nice people. My son’s dad works day and night and his family just don’t bother with my son at all. I’m in this house all day every day my self with my children doing my best for them but sometimes i struggle. A friend of mines told me she would babysit my oldest 2 to give me a rest one night and I told my kids they were going for a sleepover at my friends house. They were so excited it was like a holiday to them. Anyway, she let me down the first day, she told me she had no time to do it, but she would take them the next day at about lunch time. I had to tell my kids this but I promised them they would get to go the next day. The next day came, she told me she’s no way of coming to get them coz her child’s dad has the carseat and isn’t giving her it. I had to tell my kids which they ended up crying coz they were sat ready to go. Then my friend told me she will come n get them. So my kids got all excited again, she arrived and then sat n told me in my livingroom that she can’t take them coz she’s too stressed out. I told her I completely understand, my 3 stress me it and I don’t know who to turn to when I feel like this. Anyway my daughter ended up in floods of tears again and then my friend said she is going to come and get them the next day and take the kids down the beach then come back to hers and paint their nails and make pizza for them. So they stopped crying and it came to the next day. I had them ready with their overnight bags waiting. And again I got a message saying she couldn’t do it coz she had no way of getting them back again. So as per usual I’m having to let my kids down again and watch them cry their little hearts out as they sit at the window waiting for her. I felt terrible and we could have been out to the park or down the beach our selfs those past 3 days. Anyway I messaged my friend telling her I was upset with her, she promised my kids she would take them 3 days in a row and let them down. They are crying coz of it. Not only that, I went on her Facebook and realised she’s been at pub every bloody night and coming into my house with the crocodile tears trying to tell me she’s stressed out!!! We clearly she’s no coz she’s not even had her 1 child. I told her she was really inconsiderate as she knows I don’t even have one person to help me and she’s got lots of people around her to help her with her 1 that she’s not even had all week coz she’s been too busy at the pub!!! I’m I right to be angry at this?
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