Just after some advice… So my partners mum hasn’t bothered for over 3 months,…

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Just after some advice…

So my partners mum hasn’t bothered for over 3 months, my daughter is one in a few weeks. It’s really sad how it’s actually come to this, we haven’t fell out she just stopped bothering, I’ve always made my home welcome to her and I’ve even invited her out and she just says yeah yeah and then last minute makes up some excuse.
The thing I’m most annoyed at is the fact she has nothing nice to say about her sister and her family (slags them off) and seems to spend lots of time with them recently and can’t even phone or text to ask how her granddaughter is! I’m more upset for my partner as obviously that’s his mum and I’m sure he’d want his mum to have a relationship with his daughter.
Anyway as I’ve said my daughters one in a few weeks and we have a few things planned, do I invite her or not seeing as she’s not interested? Also the other issue is her partner I have invited him to a few things but only because i had to he’s an alcoholic and really a not very nice person, I try to limit contact between him and my daughter. Lots has gone on with him so I certainly have my reasons to do that and me and my partner are on the same wave length with that one. But how do I go about making it clear I don’t want him there to spoil her first birthday if I was to invite his mum… thanks no bashing just looking for some advice x
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