Just wanted opinions. Months ago when my baby was about 6 months my mother in la…

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Just wanted opinions. Months ago when my baby was about 6 months my mother in law asked that he would go on a prison visit to see her other son (my babies uncle), well she didn’t ask she just told me it was happening. We ended up having loads of arguments as I said I didn’t feel prison was right for a baby and my husbands family were very horrible to me. My husband doesn’t even talk to his brother so didn’t care but is a bit up his mums backside so it caused massive arguments for us two. In the end my husband unlike his family accepted I wasn’t going and we moved on. As time went on I did more and more research and decided we could go and his family were all of a sudden very thankful and stopped being horrible to me. But I went for my husband not for his family. Since then things have been fine and his mum although she can be annoying is very nice always bringing me food and making me meals but today she said to me I’ve booked another prison visit for January. So I went to my calendar to write it down saying yeah that’s fine and then she went oh well it’s just me, her son (my husband) and my baby going. So I didn’t want to go in the first place but I came round to the idea for my husband now she’s booking visits without me and trying to go with my baby who is 1. I don’t feel comfortable with children in prison anyway but came round to the idea and have been twice with my baby and husband but I think this is just ridiculous. She didn’t even ask me she just booked it without me. I already have anxiety’s about prison visits but I would never let my child just go without me. I’ve said no , but I don’t feel anyone’s taking me seriously and I know when the day comes they will come round expecting to take him but there’s no way he’s going. It’s also really annoys me because I’ve worked hard to build good relationships with my husbands brother with him being in prison and now there gonna go tell him you can’t see your nephew because of me. Am I right to say he’s not going and be angry? I am very happy to go whenever but I want to be with my son when he’s there or at least be asked
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