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May i have a private post please. Please bare with me i am using talk to text speech.

I am only 19 years old. I have had 3 miscarriages with my fiance and this last mothers day I shared a photo of my pregnant belly and I put on the post saying that I’m an angel mommy and I love all my friends and family who have supported me and I just couldn’t be where I am without those people. so my uncle posted on that picture on Instagram what the “f*** does that mean” so I deleted his comment and I blocked him and then I got a message the next day asking what I was talking about on Instagram and so I told him well what do you think I had a miscarriage and I wanted to be recognized on Mother’s Day and he started to call me names and he got mad at me and he was saying that “I deserve to know because I’m your family and you just want a pity party” and I said I don’t want a pity party I shared with my friends and family who I thought would support me because my friends have been there and my for my family, I felt it was time for them to understand that I am a young woman and I’ve gone through things. I’m not a little child anymore. and so I blocked him but he didn’t finish the conversation until he called me a lying snake and so they carried on till today where now he’s harassing my fiance and so I texted my aunt who’s married to my uncle asking her to tell him you need to let him know that he’s harassing us and he needs to stop and so my aunt told me that he’s a grown man and she can’t tell him anything that and he’s going to do what he wants but it’s basically my fault because I should have told my family about my miscarriage even though I was only 16 years old so why would I tell my family you know? and I try to let her know I was like “I’m not obligated to tell anybody about anything unless I feel comfortable and now you can see why I don’t feel comfortable” and she said well he’s not mad about your miscarriage he’s just mad that you didn’t include him and so I don’t know what to do because I’ve already blocked my parents because they were completely toxic and I just keep feeling like I’m shutting out everybody in my family and I just really don’t know what to do and I just need advice or words of wisdom from you ladies thank you for reading my very long post and it’s very eratic and It doesn’t have any punctuation probably because my phone doesn’t know when to put periods commas and etcetera
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