May i have a private post please? Sorry its a long one I’m in my early 20s, I f…

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May i have a private post please? Sorry its a long one

I’m in my early 20s, I found out a few weeks ago i may not be able to have children natural at all. Im getting it confirmed in new year by a gynacolagist, i told my partner and straight away said its okay theres other ways to have children. Surrogacy, foster and adoption he was okay with surrogacy but the problem is the dr doesn’t think I’m releasing enough eggs or any eggs at all. So i said okay theres foster and adoption. Well, anyone would think i offended him. He said and I quote ” i will not f#*king adopt or foster because they will not be my f#*king flesh and blood so you rethink about that one now.” I have said since day one if i cannot have children natural i am more than happy enough to give a child a loving and caring home. Whether they have (please excuse these sayings as i hate the sayings) special needs, down syndrome as they are pushed aside as some people don’t think they’re “prefect” but to me they’re like every child as they are all perfect, happy, loving, rewarding, caring and special child whether they have an extra chromesome or not. Every single child in my eyes are perfect. But anyway, I’m annoyed, upset and angry my partner has said this. I have said to him he can leave if it means i can’t have children and will adopt because he doesn’t want to adopt. Am i in the wrong? Please I’m in a delocate state due to it all, so no nasty comments xx
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