Needing a ppp? I’m feeling really down and I’m not sure if I should be feeling l…
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Needing a ppp?
I’m feeling really down and I’m not sure if I should be feeling like this needing advice off other mum’s.. my partner had been working away for months and only coming home on the weekends but recently he’s been coming home ever 2 weeks and all he does is sleep or play on the Xbox I have been very supportive and understanding that’s he’s working hard for us/ his family but he never texts or rings while he works away and we literally NEVER do anything we go on 1 holiday a year and that’s the most we see him. I just don’t see the point he works to support us be he earns alot of money and we never do anything with it I feel like I’m ungreatful for what he does but I get £50 a week and if to spend that on days out or if kids need anything and that’s all he has financial control over everything else .. I just expect more if he’s earning over £1000 a week I expect to be able to go on more holidays or even abroad or a nicer house than this crappy stuffy house we live in. I’m not allowed to get a job because he said it’s a waste of money because we would have to pay for child care .. am I just being selfish?
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Your not allowed to get a job because it’s a waste of money? NONSENSE! You need to gain some sense of being independent. As long as he’s earning the money things will always go his way. As long as you’re not disabled you should be earning an income not stay at home because that’s what your partner says.
A grand a week and you get £50 to yourself 😮 are you serious! I don’t even live with my boyfriend but we share money as though we do
He sounds rather controlling….
How old is your child… if your child is over 3 you get 15hourd free so you could get small part time job xxx
your not being selfish sounds to me like he is tbh 🙁 xxx