Ok.ladies private post please and it’s a long one so bare with me I apologise in…
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Ok.ladies private post please and it’s a long one so bare with me I apologise in advance .
Been with my partner 4years he has 2 kids to a ex.. will give a little back ground on the situation. Ex is violent has lots of charges against her, indulges in 1 night stands (with kids in home) DV relationships and social work r heavily involved. The eldest child has drink & drug problems and violence problems and I’m many reports mirrors her mother. She lived with dad and us for a bit but is very close to her mum and mum lost tc & cb so made out to child we didn’t want them and a huge row erupted and she went back to her mum sw didn’t agree so poor soul was placed in care as the mum twisted said child against us so much she refused to live her even though it was safe for her and a loving establishment (she thought boring as no drama) was to quiet and normal for her.. also youngest child is slowly doing same with regards to violence and latley when comes to stay is aggressive towards me & my child I pander to him, fall over him, lobe him with all my heart and it’s always my mum says your this, my mum says your tgat.. I’m NOT allowed to like u get away from me ect.. bearing in mind 1st 3yrs these kids adored and loved our family unit and all wanted to life here as it’s calmer until the mum twisted there wee heads.. sw report on this to her all the time reminding her it’s emotional abuse and causing problems for her kids safety when they refuse to come to us because of her behaviour….
So fast forward to today.. for 4yrs this women has also emotionally and physically abused me at every opportunity and I grind my teeth, block block and block more she is relentless for making up fb acc and buying payg sims to hurl abuse..
Today my phone pinged at lets just say very early making demands I tried to be nice and was given a hurl of abuse called all names under sun slagged of on her fb acc and snap chat (she’s 40) so I warned my partner at Xmas when said child had to go to care because of this grown womens behaviour that of she contacts me again with abuse for the 1st time I’m years she s getting it back im sick of taking it purely because she’s his ex and mother of kids and just blocking it so today I let rip!! Everything she gave she got back ten folds and now she’s contacted my partner saying kids can’t come here and he can’t see them until he leaves me and he’s not getting near his son unless he doubles csa and pays up but even at that while we life together he can only see his kids in her house and stay the night.
Now my partner has said no way will he be in her company and he’s on bc so knows he needs contact sw again and a lawyer to sort his rights once and for all…. but what’s pissed me of is he says this was all my fault.. am I right to be majorly pissed of that for 4yrs I’ve bought all the Xmas birthdays (while he was out of work) I take them in love them and drop everything anytime sw call with a drama even when he dosnt or can’t be bothered… I literally do everything for him and his kids as well as my own and he openly admits he wouldn’t be were he is without me bit today he’s sided with her and said I’ve caused all this and now he won’t see his kids for god knows how long? How would u ladies react cause personally I’m ready to pack his stuff and leave it on her doorstep and leave them all to it and save myself a lot of stress and drama. My whole relationship revolves round his ex and I’m surprised it’s taken me 4yrs to remind her shes a vile human who uses her children as a pawn in her toxic games….
I have 2 kids and an ex and there is never any issues we work together and no issues with my children. I would never allow my ex once to bad mouth my partner never mind relentlessly for 4yrs then accuse my partner of causing me issues with my kids when he finally flipped
Sorry for long post and thanks
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