Please can I get a private post. I’m 28 with 2 kids. A girl and boy. Iv had some…

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Please can I get a private post. I’m 28 with 2 kids. A girl and boy. Iv had some serious let downs in my life for partners so far. Domestic abuse, liars and cheats. Last year I finally found the perfect guy. Cannot fault him in anyway. His never had a police record like the others I was with. And his bloody brilliant with the kids.. Worships the ground I walk(literally).. He moved in with me earlier this year but recently we lost the spark. I found out that he has depression and anxiety and that he wasn’t coping being away from home and wants to move back to his mums.. It’s 2 hours away by train. He moved down because we couldn’t do the whole distance and never wanted to apart. I totally understand he needs his mum. He is a lonely child and it’s all his ever known. His mum even said I am the first gf since he was a teen! My dilemma… I can’t force him to stay with me but we also cannot lose one another. I consider I could always move away with him? But obviously children from previous relationships. The girl is no bother as her dad isn’t allowed near her and hasn’t for 7 years… My son however sees his dad every Sunday which would be impossible if I move away. He lives in a studio flat with rules of no children allowed past 7pm. His never had his son overnight as much as we both would like that. Would I be selfish to make my happy ever after and take that away from them? It’s not my fault he can’t go get his own place where he can have his son on the whole weekend and half terms.. Iv msgd him telling him that I might not stick around this town much longer so his gotta get his act together. I’m so stuck and lost. Sorry about long post I just needed to get off my chest.
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