Please post anon for me. Please ladies give me some advice im so confused. So m…

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Please post anon for me.

Please ladies give me some advice im so confused.
So me and my partner of 14 years split up 1 year ago. It was my choice as our relationship felt so routine he didnt provide although hr worked famiky time was none existant he couldnt wait to get back to see his friends.. he smokes weed all the time had the money for that but not help towards bills. Although he did paý for holidays. We have 2 children together also and everything was left to me to do i did all the night feeds feeding bathing brought everything they needed. He had been caught numerous times out the relationship talkinh to other girls slagging ne off to get attention.

So anyway i met this other guy about 10 months ago new him from a years ago anyway hes the kindest most caring person ive met would never cheat he treats me like theres no other girl in the world. He cant do enough for me. hes so good with my boys treats them like his own will buy things for them haopy to contribute he cleans more than me ha ha being with him is just a constant laugh its constant messing around having fun. Sex is amazing hes a proper man. Hes constantly wanting to toich and massage me cuddle ne kiss me. The only downside to him hes not great with his money although hew told me to have control over his bank which is fine

Heres the problem so my oldest boy loves his dad to pieces his dad cant do anything wrong. My ex.never wanted to split up anyway hes constantly texting me giving me abuse but he says he doew this as its how he reacts because he loves me and wants us to ve a family again… he has a fulk time job now has done for the last 4 months reckons hes stopping smoking weed too. My question is do i risk giving it another go with him mainly for the kids.sake and try and make thingd work with us as it is 14 years we are wasting.. or do i stay with my current partner whis amazing. My ex does little stunts and tells me hes seeing someone else i now no hes doing it for a reaction but when he was dpimg it it would really upset me even though ive moved on but it makes me question if i do feel something for him.. i look at him and im sure theres no attraction tjere but when i look at my partner now there is i dont no if its because i want my kids to in a family with there proper dad or what… i dont no why i cant just let go and cut all ties with him not that i csn because of the kids but i still feel the need to talk to him … help me please give me some advice before i drive myselt insane.. i just love the thought of the proper family life again eveb though i no i can get that eith my new partner plus im in no way judging anyone who has kids with a different man but i want another child in the.future and didnt want children with different dads even thiugh my current partner has 3 children with hidls ex anf hes an amazing dad he even gets up in the night eith my youngest lets me sleep in most days even.though he works.. helllpppppp
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