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PLEASE POST ANONYMOUSLY Ok… I’m struggling to know wether I’m in the wrong o…

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PLEASE POST ANONYMOUSLY

Ok… I’m struggling to know wether I’m in the wrong or my partner is in the wrong. So please help.. my partner who I’ve got a daughter with was in a show a couple of weeks back playing a lead role where he’s in a relationship with another girl .. the girl who played his girlfriend has a fiancée and kids In reality so I didn’t suspect anything weird as I knew she was settled down. Then I noticed he was messaging her quite a lot on Facebook after the show had finished.. still I didn’t say anything but I had an incline as he NEVER talks to other girls as much as he did her.. i do let him talk to other girls I’m not controlling. Anyway, I left it and then he took me away to Venice which he booked last year for this year for my birthday.. and on the day we got back she popped up again at the airport on his messages.. he got his phone out to see who it was and because I was looking he went “oh it’s ****” and quickly put it back without reading it.. I asked him why he wasn’t reading it in front of me and he said it wasn’t relevant as he was spending time with me …fair enough.. but when I glimpsed at the message there was a love heart.. I suffer with anxiety which I’m not paranoid but when I get gut feelings (which is rare) they’re often true! So obviously I thought she’d said something different.. he showed me the message, and it was her saying “so how much did you love Venice? ❤️ and a bit more… so I said yeah fair enough…. and I left it and completely forgot about it but then tonight he had a wrap party for the show where all the cast went… and unfortunately for him, he left his Facebook messages popping up on my laptop and there she was again… saying “I really missed you so much!” And he replied with “I missed you too” and saying he would of stayed later if she’d of stayed.. I FEEL PHYSICALLY SICK!! 😷

Am I wrong and being paranoid?… or should I be worried.. I honestly NEVER would of thought he’d be the guy to speak to someone else.. our daughter is only 6 months old and it breaks my heart!! 😭😭😭
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