Pp Ok really long story here but Saturday my boyfriend was supposed to stay at …
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Ok really long story here but Saturday my boyfriend was supposed to stay at mine like he does every weekend but this weekend he rang to say he would be late because while at a football match two of the lads wallets had gone missing so the police were called to question everyone and no one could leave until it was sorted… anyway he rang me again and said he couldn’t make it because everyone was getting taken into the station because no one was admitting to it… so I left him to it thinking he was in a police station… I tried to call him in the morning to see if he was ok… No answer, he rang me back just before 12 to say he had been in cells all night because he swung for a copper… I didn’t believe him but just agreed. I just thought he had stayed out with his mates and had a drink instead of coming over… so on Sunday he came over to stay… He turned up drunk and went to bed early, I had a gut feeling to look at his phone I know I shouldn’t have done but what I saw absolutely distraught me his web browser was left open on a website that arranges for people to meet up and have sex… none of the messages on there insinuates he has had sex with someone but I don’t know what to think, he doesn’t know I know about this website but iv asked him if he has cheated on me and he said no why would I do that ur my queen… i really don’t know what to do he’s my everything, if been in tears all day at work it’s been horrible thinking what is he doing when I’m not there.. thank u
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Can u please reply we aren’t married so I didn’t think the police would tell me if he has or hasn’t been in custody due to data protection.. thank u
Tell him you were concerned about what had happened and so felt to check his phone. Tell him what you saw and ask him to explain. There’s no shame in trusting a gut feeling & no shame in checking his phone either so don’t allow him to turn the blame on to you!
I’d just be totally straight with him. Tell him he made you question what he’d been up to so you looked at his phone and saw what you saw. No way in hell is that okay to do if you’re in a relationship. Even if you were just “looking”. It’s so disrespectful and it needs to be addressed.
Sorry but the police would not hold a bunch of people just because someone’s wallet has gone missing! What a load of bollocks! They have better things to do than waste time taking loads of people to the station because of that! He’s obviously lying think you just need to ask him straight out why he’s lying. He’s not worth your time or effort if he doesn’t tell you the truth x
You can actually contact the police station and ask if he’s been in custody