pp please need advice the thing is my ex from over 10 yeas ago has messaged me …

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pp please need advice
the thing is my ex from over 10 yeas ago has messaged me out of the blue just a general message like how’s you keeping etc (i have not replied) now he knows i have a partener and a toddler and one on the way he chats and sees my oh everyday nearly and they get on. and even when im with my oh we all speak like normal as it was so long ago. anyway to get to the point my ex was my first and we got on till he dumped me with text etc and now he messages generally and the messages turn to sex now I never took these messages on and ignored them cause I know he’s been drinking he tells me he thinks about me all the time and wishes he’d have treated me different etc even say he wished my kids were his (i havent replied to any of these messages) he bought a house with his gf and there engaged now should I tell my oh about this or ignore it and leave him be cause he was drinking?
I hate fighting and all that it sends my anxiety through the roof…
Please no nasty comments
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