PPP I have 3 children my children don’t really have any active involvement with…

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I have 3 children my children don’t really have any active involvement with other family members there choice. But I and my other half had a fall out and twice he has left to live with his family and refused to have the children even for an hour the reason for this he said well what would I be doing if he had them for few hours I offered over night too but I was told he couldn’t have them as he had no place to stay with them for the night out of three family members his reason for this was they all told him they can’t sleep over now to get the children to visit him when he has left it is a two and a half hour drive and I am the one willing to do the drive and drop off and collect for him so that they see there dad am so annoyed that him and his family are like this with them they won’t even visit for the day to see them either but the more I have thought about it on each occasion that he has left as it has happened a lot over the years each time that he has left he has always refused them then has a go at me saying I have stopped it which no way have I so that his family then give me trouble thinking am not allowing him to see them I’d never ever do that I must also stress that he doesn’t have them when he lives at home he expects me to be with him 24 hours a day with the children I spoken to him and now he says he gets anxiety when he is to have them on his own but I fear this is an excuse I know people suffer bad with this but why just come out with it now and the fact is he wouldn’t be on his own with them he would be at family members houses with them and he doesn’t have to have them over night even just a few hours to see them but him and his family have 😞 so my point is it now has me worrying that if anything was to happen to me ( I have no family ) what would happen to my children he doesn’t make me feel that he give them security or his family would they end up in care and spilt up would he step up if he was to step up he would if done so now but mostly if it is anxiety and anything did happen to me his family have proved that they wouldn’t support him in helping with the children so what could I do to put something in place to know they were safe and well looked after this has me so worried 😩
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