Ppp I have been with my wife for 11 years 12 in march and we have 7 kids toget…
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I have been with my wife for 11 years 12 in march and we have 7 kids together.
Over the last few months my wife has expressed an interest in seeing other women (she is bisexual) on her own and I’m not sure what to do.
I know she misses the touch and intimacy of a woman and I want her to be happy but I’m not sure how I feel about it or how i will react.
She says she will bottle up her feelings again if she has to but I don’t feel like it’s fair on her to have to bottle it up but I’m worried about my reaction.
I’m not wanting an open marriage so she can see other women and so can I as I have zero interest in been with anyone else. It just seems to go round in circles either
1. She bottles it up and is unhappy and I worry she may be upset with me in the long run
Or
2. I let her do it with my blessing but I worry how I will react knowing she is with other women and a part of me feels she will leave me for a woman even tho she has told me time and again I’m the one she wants and she will never leave me
I’m so confused any advice or anyone had anything similar that can shed some light on it for me
Please no harsh comments as I know she loves me we are just stuck at a cross roads
Sorry for long post
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I’m sorry you sound like a lovely trustworthy husband.. you say you only want her, so why doesn’t she feel the same? Even if she says she does. I don’t blame you for how you feel, if she wants to explore other people then she shouldn’t be in a committed marriage it’s as simple as that.
You have to view it the other way round, I’m sure a married woman wouldn’t allow her husband to go off sleeping with other men. If the is bisexual then she will always have the attraction there for women however if she WANTS TO SLEEP with them then I’m sorry but she’s not happy with you. Your heterosexual so find women attractive BUT if you said to your wife your missing a woman’s touch other then her then that would say your not satisfied with your wife. It’s all the same, so I would let her leave to be with females if she wants to but not have both.
not being funny but if she was straight and wanted to be intimate with anther lad u would of just thought straight up that’s cheating and wanted to get rid it shouldn’t make a difference if it’s a lad or a lass she wants to be intimate with she’s married to u if she wants to be with u then she shouldn’t think twice about anyone else sounds like u mite be better of with out her if she has feelings for someone else and expecting u to let her go cheat on u i wouldn’t be putting up with that
How would she feel if you wanted to be intimate with somebody else weather it be a man or a woman, it’s unfair for her to expect you to be ok with her cheating whatever their gender.
If she love u and says ur th one she ones why the hell dose she want to go with sum one else would she be ok if it were th other way round xx
tell her how u feel forget everything else has to be a join decision in what u do don’t agree to what will make.u unhappy
If you’re the one she wants then she wouldn’t be getting feelings, etc to be with other women.
She’s married to you! If you ain’t happy with it then tell her! It’s cheating either way!!
Just try it my man 😂👍