Ppp…i need to know whether I am in the wrong.. so for the first few years of m…

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Ppp…i need to know whether I am in the wrong.. so for the first few years of me and my husband being together, I paid for everything, this was due to him not having to right to work or access to public funds. Anyway, a few years on, my husband sorted his visa so that he had a couple of years to live here and had the right to work but no access to public funds..we are currently going through the process again but this time so that he can remain and will have access to all public funds.. so anyway, I worked out all the bills and split them down the middle so to say.. all the bills go out after my wage comes in.. then i live week to week through tax creds…his half goes straight to nursery fees.. the thing that is winding me up the most is that he has been working two jobs, so I have had no support with the kids, he doesn’t want to learn about how anxiety affects me and I also have b12 deficiency which makes me rrally tired.. he doesn’t help towards extra things that need paying for.. and within two weeks of getting my wage, I am sat in my overdraft again.. now I knoe people are going to say at least he pays his way..but this is only a new thing…it is only recently he has paid the right amount.. some weeks it would be 4o down..sometimes 60.. he earns at least 500 a week before tax!!! I am not asking alot, I just want a little more support with the kids and not a full blown argument when extra money is needed..i have helped him alot financially over the last 5 years..i just feel I deserve a little bit more respect. I am sorry i have just ranted lol… but am i wrong in thinking he should help out that little more when it is needed xxx
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