PPP, I really hope this makes sense. I have learning difficulties and find it ha…
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PPP, I really hope this makes sense. I have learning difficulties and find it hard to explain myself.
I really hate change.. Like, when I’m so used to doing something then one day I dont do it. Having support from family support workers etc u gain an amazing bond with that person, And then they leave or they just stop working with you, or when someone says something will be a certain time and then it never happens etc. It really gets to me, I think more than it should tbf.. I do this college thing for my maths and English, but recently got told my two years is nearly up! I’ll have no support at all after this.. Family support worker left last year on maternity leave but found out she actually isn’t coming back and changed her job.. She has worked with me for nearly 6 years!! She was like a mother to me. So what am I meant to do now?! Feels like all the support I get for me and my lg doesn’t last long, I don’t know what the point of this post is tbf just guess I’m looking for advice or a little moan.. Changes with little things gets to me as well, like different life style etc or summit. Split up with my ex last year and it’s killing me so much cos everything just changed! 😢 I really hope this makes sense I’m getting myself in a mess cos I just needed to get it out there but don’t think it is understandable?!
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It is understandable! And it’s also understandable why you feel alone.
I’ve worked in mental health for quite a few years and I always say, how hard do you think it is for the people you support when you just leave.
I hope you get the good support and friendship you need x
I’m a support worker and I understand. It must be difficult for you as you will bond with them but they have to remain professional in order to support you as you need. We care about the people we support but have to make sure we don’t become friends. When they leave and don’t come back, it doesn’t mean they don’t care about you or miss working with you but have had to move on for personal or professional reasons. Sometimes it’s that the agency put us somewhere else! That happened to me when I came back from maternity leave. We aren’t allowed to visit you as a friend either, even if we want to. I know this might not help you feel much better but just wanted you to know that it doesn’t mean they didn’t care about you or enjoy supporting you. Are your support workers just to help with your education? Perhaps you could ask someone to help you find a group for people with similar problems to you, you can make new friends and the staff there will offer you support as well.
Try home start Kirklees x