Ppp. I’m sorry but this is an I don’t get on with my in-laws post. I really need…

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Ppp. I’m sorry but this is an I don’t get on with my in-laws post. I really need to vent! I had a good relationship with my mil until she tried to control my relationship with her son. When he moved in with me she still expected him to provide for her/ his dad and brother and he did for a couple of months but just couldn’t afford it. She hates the fact his taken on my kids from a young age and supports them financially (kids see him as daddy as there bio dad not about) she and some members of his family have sent so much abuse. She even try to ruin our wedding day. Shouted that was utter bullshit at the end of our speeches. When I gave birth to our child she demanded we use her surname instead of our married one!!! Before my son was born she put me through so much stress I went in to get checked over to find our sons heartbeat so faint they rushed me in for a c section so my husband missed the birth. I’m pregnant again and his sister has sent him snarky remarks “maybe she will let you go to this birth” it wasn’t my fault he missed it! I couldn’t help our sons heartbeat and he completely understands that i couldn’t wait for him to get to the hospital. His mum sent this “Day u chose to not see me and turn your back on me u broke my heart all I know is u work she spends while doing fuck all to contribute 4 kids 2 not yours was not how I thgt you’d live your life fat and not care about your blood” now if got a young son and if been at college studying for the past couple of years so yes I may not be financially contributing but I’m trying to better my life by going to college! Yes his the provider of the family and yes he supports 2 children that are not biologically his. I asked him of he minded supporting them and he was like there my kids no matter what. For personal reasons we can’t cut contact with them just yet but what else can I actually do ? We see them a couple of times a month because of the distance between us (we always have to go there). I wouldn’t mind going to see her but she always belittles us and always has issues with something. We can’t literally do nothing right in her eyes! What do i do! I don’t want another stressful pregnancy ! Xx
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