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Ppp I’ve been seeing this lad for awhile I’m a single parent to a lb. I met him …

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Ppp I’ve been seeing this lad for awhile I’m a single parent to a lb. I met him when I first signed for this house and he wanted to move in but I wasn’t ready at that stage more because hes sat and watch me struggle financially doing the house on my own and not even offered to help. He’s constantly out of work if he gets a job he starts to no show. I trailed a move in and asked him to leave after a few weeks as he wasn’t doing anything (I work) and pay everything for myself. I had to ask him for a financial contribution because he really thought he was going to stay here and me pay everything. On the day I asked him to leave I also found out that I’m pregnant. He promised to sort himself out and I’ve just found out he’s been sacked due to no showing at work for over a week. I’ve been bleeding all weekend and have an emergency scan on Monday rather than stay local for an emergency (I’ve explained how faint and unwell I feel) he’s gone to another area for a drink. I’ve ended the relationship today as I feel that everything financially lands on me not only have I got the stress of miscarriage on my mind I’ve had to ring In sick for Monday so now I’m also worrying finacially. Even though we don’t live together I believe he should be there to offer some help and reassurance instead he’s blowing money he doesn’t have. There’s been no offer to sit and help me with my son or even help in the house over the weekend knowing I’m in pain. I feel like I’ve constantly carried him and now I need help he’s nowhere to be seen. He missed mine and my son’s birthday. How’s he even going to help with purchases for the baby now he’s jobless again. He jist seems to have a lack of responsilbility at all. He knows my son is poorly and because of that i can be up all night for weeks at a time. Theres no help from him at all. Am I right in my decision or am I just being hormonal?
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4 thoughts on “Ppp I’ve been seeing this lad for awhile I’m a single parent to a lb. I met him …

  • Think your better off without him sounds a bit of a child. You’ve managed so far without his input financially and he can’t even be bothered to be there when you need him Asshole if you ask me good luck for Monday xx

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  • Sounds like an immature waste if space to me! Defo doing the right thing. Your little boy is probably more mature! Sorry to hear about problems with your baby x

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