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Ppp. I’ve written on here before about numerous problems I’ve had with my in-law…

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Ppp. I’ve written on here before about numerous problems I’ve had with my in-laws. Everyone always advised me just to cut them off. I never thought it was fair on my husband as he would have to deal with the consequences but after seeing them the last 4 times I’ve realised there game. There tactics was always to try split me and my husband up but they always failed. There trying need of trying to control our relationship failed now they go for my weak point which is my children. They are now starting with them. Please bare in mind they are both under 8 and do not understand what they have done wrong for them to suddenly start being mean to them. They can do nothing right now it’s got to the point at the last visit they were to scared to even move off the sofa just incase they were told of so I left straight away and will not be putting them through that again. I’m not saying its all of his family mainly 2 members. But I do not see it as fair to have to put my babies through that! So I’ve said to my husband I’m having nothing more to do with them nor are my kids (his step kids) I said he is more then welcome to take our child to see them but I will not go. Now he completely understands but is sad at the same time because his now been put in the middle. He won’t go there without me because he knows how nasty they can be but he doesn’t want to be accused of keeping our child away from them. I want my husband happy but my children come first. What can I do? Theres no talking to the in-laws in there eyes they do no wrong and we deserve every bad word and threat they have ever said. I know this isn’t going to end well they have even tried black mailing my husband so I no this isn’t going to end well. But what else can I do? Xx
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