PPP. My baby is 2 days old and I am no longer with the father. He wants 50% acce…
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PPP. My baby is 2 days old and I am no longer with the father. He wants 50% access which I think is too much. Can I ask what people think is reasonable? I am trying ny hardest to be fair but I can’t stand the thought of my baby boy leaving me
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I’m with you at such a young age that’s a lot, all for that once baby is older, but I’d try overnight maybe twice a week to begin with and when baby gets older discuss between yourselves what works best for you all, good luck x
As a mum I wouldn’t want to give my child up 50/50.
However, that child is both of yours, and although you carried the child for 9 months doesn’t mean he/she is just yours and you get more right.
At 2 days old I wouldn’t suggest 50/50 although it’s better for the child to start 50/50 younger so they get into a routine xx
I think if both parents are capable and willing then it should be 50/50 tbh. Even though I’m a mum myself and it would break my heart I don’t think either parent is superior and it’s not about you, it’s about your baby and a baby is human with rights to both parents. Its not about what the mother wants!!!
Id say if your not breast feeding I think having him 2 days in week and 1 day at weekend would be fair not 50% at such a young age maybe when baby is a bit older then start 50/50 he is the father and if hes willing to take it as many people don’t have fathers wanting to have there kids often enough x
I do believe it is just as important for the father to see his child although I feel at such a young age it it’s a little much to ask 50/50.
Maybe start with 25% so say 2 days 2 nights and see how that goes.
Are you breastfeeding? I know you can pump later on but right now for the first 6 weeks it’s important you feed to increase and Keep your milk supply.
Maybe 1 nite and then he sees baby few times wk at urs. But then if bottle fed is no reason he cant have more least baby in routine and used to it young
I’d be grateful he wants to see the baby tbh so many dads these days find it so easy to walk away.. I’d appreciate it xxx
Too much too soon!! At this point he should be coming to yours to see baby. Xx
He has ever right to have the baby 50/50… its not about what you want
Why is too much ?