PPP My OH 4 years ago got found out to be messaging a lady, my gut instinct at …
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My OH 4 years ago got found out to be messaging a lady, my gut instinct at the time was his phone was kept close and if I walked into a room he would switch screens of course he said he wasn’t, I found out by his phone bill online that he was intouch with one number really late at night and early morning found out she was 40 odd lady he worked with he is 20s after saying he wasn’t texting this woman he told me he was because he needed someone to talk too as apparently I never listened to him so apparently the talking in his words was to slag me off vent out 😞 mind I work full time had our children to look after as well as minding his child from another relationship while he was in the “gym” for 4 hours a time 6 days a week, after lots of falling out I agreed to give it another go on the promise it didn’t happen again …..you guessed it, it did happen again the following year but this woman contacted me on Facebook with dates and times of when he was planning to leave me ( he did so on the day she said ) she lived over 5 hours away and he apparently told her he wanted to move in with her and he didn’t love me , he never moved in he lied said he didn’t do all of this then two years later confessed he did and didn’t tell me as he was scared to lose me 🤔 again stupidly I stayed things were great for two year but just lately I have that gut feeling again or am I just reading too much into some thing ? He has started keeping his phone close by again the last three weeks and in his pocket, he talks about a waitress who gave him a chewing gum at work and he loved it as it was a new flavour out so he had to find out where to buy these from, then the other day while shopping for Christmas things he said oh I need a Christmas cup for work ( he works in a hotel ) I said why would you need to buy a cup for work am sure there is plenty he replied ” well the one I have a the moment is a princess one which the waitress gave me ” he never refers to the waitress by name it always the waitress but the way he talks it sounds like it is the same person ! I don’t know what am expecting from writing this maybe am reading too much into it ? He become so moody again lately and sick of looking after the kids while am at work apparently coming and going as I please while he is home and then working ( not sure what he means by that as am at work or uni ) I don’t want to go into another year of having the mick taken out of me again and I know I’ve allowed it but not again and he knows for sure I’d go the next time apparently these women were not about been sexual but to basically slag me off when I asked for the messages to prove that all it was all messages too both women he deleted please please private post this
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