PPP sorry for long post… After a bit of advice, NBR! Me and my partner have…
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PPP sorry for long post…
After a bit of advice, NBR!
Me and my partner have been together for 11 years and have a 2yr old. He also has children from a previous relationship which we have joint custody of. I have been in these boys life’s since they were tiny so I obviously think the world of them. My partner works away a lot, which is fine, and I do the school run everyday for the other children, including the days when they are at there mums. I run around after my partner when he is working close by (to and from train station), plus dealing with the baby everyday. I also work full time and studying for exams.
My issue is, when my partner is home, he just constantly sits on his laptop and plays computer games, literally 13 hours a day. To the point where the kids don’t wanna come out there room cos my partner is ‘too busy’ and I’m left dealing with the baby! He says it’s his time as he works full time, but so do I! As well as doing everything inbetween!
He used to be such a great father and great partner but recently (12 months or so) he has changed! His ‘friends’ on his game tell me to f**k off if I ask him to come off it, and he doesn’t defend me, his ex constantly orders me around when dropping kids off etc, baring in mind if it’s her week, I am actually doing her a favour!
I just feel so lonely, if I ever say anything I get accused of moaning, or being a bitch, or being selfish! Dinner is always cooked for him when he is home, plus lunches etc made. I literally wake up at 5.45 and don’t stop til 9pm. I’m absolutely exhausted and don’t know what to do. I want my partner back, but feel like it’s too little too late! I’m also stuck as don’t want my daughter being brought up in a broken home 😢😢
Anyone relate or have any advice? Very worn out mummy 😢😢
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PleAse reply to Alicia- yes I work from 7.45 in the morning til 3. My step son goes to breakfast club while my daughter goes to nursery at 7.30. The eldest stepson is 15 so makes his own way to school….
Iv got no advice. But, To me, your not appreciated. Most men don’t realise what they have. & you sound like a supermom, take credit for what you do. It’s not easy with your own children never mind all the running around you do for your step children when their at their mums house. Your amazing, but take some time out for yourself to relax and wind down, you will run yourself into the ground. Xx
Yes … Fuck that shit … Wow you are doing far too much on your own you are not a bloody chauffeur , maid ,cook and nanny.Dont say anything except the word no and if the ex or your partner say anything stay calm and simply reply no do it your chuffing selves you lazy cunts… If I was you he would be stabbed and her tits would be stapled to her face … People will only take the piss if you let them .. have some respect for your self if your child sees you being a doormat what will that make them … It sounds harsh but it’s true. Fuck off to a friend’s or family members for a few days and leave the piss taking cunts to sort themselves out.You deserve better and you should want that for yourself ..
I have to agree with Sonia your other half really doesn’t appreciate what you do. You really have got to sit down and say no more. I would maybe write I detailed list of what you do in a day then what he does and show him and ask him to help lighten the load a little x
Imagine his life without you. You need respect and you’re not getting it. You are frankly the only thing keeping his life together and part of the ex’s life together whilst trying to maintain and keep your life together.
NO…. too much
Yes let him get in then you walk out the door and let your hair down with friends. Turn your phone off xx
you work full time but manage to do the school run and make dinner…?