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What would you do if your boyfriend locked you in a room for the best part of an hour, sent your 10 Y O daughter to let you out and in front of her told you that you were no better than an animal and then poured a drink over you calling you a fat cunt and that he was going to trash the house? I’m sitting in an upstairs room right now with my kids with the door locked afraid to open it.. he will leave eventually as he has to go to work but I’m so shook up I don’t know what to do!

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25 thoughts on “PPP x What would you do if your boyfriend locked you in a room for the best part…

  • Call the police and kick his ass out for good!! This is disgusting and no one deserves to be treated like this especially in front of your kids I have no clue who your or who he is but I’d happily beat his ass right now for you!! Hope your ok x

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  • Your children shouldn’t witness anything of the sort. Love and happiness is all not a scum bag doing that to the mother of his kids. Ring the police and see how big and tough he is then. One word WANKER! He doesn’t deserve the title of boyfriend or even dad! Total piece of shit! Get out whilst you can Hun if not for you then for your babies sakes x

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  • I wouldn’t be calling him my partner for a starters. Phone the police,get him removed and throw his shit out. You deserve better, your children don’t need to witness this behaviour. Not a man,just a nasty piece of bullying scum. You’d be well rid

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  • The way I see it is I wouldn’t want my kids growing up thinking treating another human being like that is ok. If they are around it all the time then eventually they will accept that as normal behaviour. Do you want them treating their partners that way in the future? Or do you want them to hang around if they are treated that way? No probably not! So break the cycle now. Get out for you and your babies x x

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  • This is abuse ! He has no right to treat you like this and u don’t want your little
    Ones growing up thinking that this is ok ! X regardless of who’s name the property is in u can get him removed by the police due to abuse for tonihjt at least. X speak to women’s aid they will discuss safety etc with u and also what legal u could take to stop him having contact with u X u can always call a family memeber to come collect u also tonihjt if u feel scared.

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  • Oh my good god!! Get out of the house and go stay with family/friends!! Think of your children, they shouldn’t be witnessing something like this, your boyfriend is the animal!! Not you!!

    This might be a total long shot, but I’m in Swansea, if the poster is anywhere in South Wales area and needs a lift anywhere to get away could you put me in contact with her please and I’ll pick her up. Xx

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  • Pack his shit and throw him out the door. He’s an animal even treating you like like especially infront of children. That’s a coward !!! Rip up his clothes also before it’s packed and also call the police and get a restraining order. You will be a fool to take that back and remember your daughter will be looking up to you show her this is not right and no man should ever treat a woman like this. You I’ll be her hero ❤ stay strong x

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  • Get off here sweetheart and phone the police! If you phone them and can’t speak press number 5 make sure your location is turned on and they will track you! Please get out for the sake of your children 💜💜💜 big hugs xxxx

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  • This is not a relationship! A relationship is love and respect, not just on his good days. It is all the time. Call the police. It is not ok for the kids to see this. They will grow up thinking this is ok. You could possibly (I don’t know the whole situation) but if he is abusive and you stay, could possibly lose your kids. Get out of this situation! Show your kids this is not how a woman is to be treated and not how a “man” should act! Prayers with you!

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  • You need to show your children you can be strong and leave him. Call the police aswell to let them know what happened make sure he can’t come home or find where ever you go. Show your children people can not treat others like that or they will think it’s normal. Social services can help you they will be glad you are getting away from someone who behaves like that in front of the kids x

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  • Phone the police, whisper down the phone or wait til he leaves! Txt a friend or family member to phone them or msg me and I’ll phone the police for you! Or if you live near me I’ll come and get you and your kids away!! Nobody deserves to be treated like that Hun! Get away from the creep as fast as you can. Xxx

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  • Things like this get worse and worse.. Dont let it. People like him cannot change no matter what they say after they kicked ten tones of shite out of you. Call the police for help and leave hun. You have kids to think about. Best thing a good friend of mine ever said to me was this. Would you allow your daughter/son to be treated like that by their “partner” … Like hell you would. Mumma bear would come out and rip the fuckers head off! So dont let it happen to you if you wouldnt let it happen to your child/ren. Xx

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  • U need to leave him love. U dony deserve it. U will b fine with out him. U don’t need someone like that in your life or your children’s life. Know it’s hard but I promise it will get better. Please go get some help while he is at work. Inbox me of u need some help. I have been there. And know how scary things can get. Xxxx

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  • Wait til he goes to work, pack a bag for you and your daughter with everything you would want and need (ID eg passports, proof of address) and go to a family or friends house. Then ring the police from there. Don’t wait around in case he comes back

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  • I would phone the police, take photos, video any noise or abuse, appeal for a handy man/lock smith to come out when he’s gone to change locks and stay somewhere for a few days maybe contact a domestic violence organisation, you maybe able to handle what he’s doing to you, but he is affecting and scaring your children and you as a mother must protect them, fuck love your sole duty it to protect your children from this!

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  • Get the hell out and take your kids. I was in a very abusive relationship and it only got worse. My ex used to tell my children to go upstairs so “I can slap your mom”. He sent me into early labour by throwing me off a chair at 37 weeks pregnant. He kneed me in the stomach when I was 12 weeks. He used my children to scare me and that’s what your ex has done. Please leave. I ended up with broken ribs, and a fractured jaw and my children were so frightened and timid.

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  • You call the police and report him! It’s abuse & your children shouldn’t have to witness that, get out of that relationship NOW before it gets worse, all the best sweetheart xx

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  • Wait for him to go and then LEAVE for your kids sake if not yours. Your child should not be witnessing please get help!! Msg a family member or police

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  • kick his sorry arse down the stairs as hard as you can (when the children aren’t there to see it) have you got any family! get in touch with someone to pick you up and never see the loser again! xx

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  • Think of it at a different angle… what would u do if it was your daughter in the future in this situation. What advice would u give her???

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  • if i was you call the police an safeguard ur children an yourself before its to late… you deserve 100 times better an so does ur children xx

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  • Call police get him arrested and get a no contact order simple ad that don’t let him make u feel ur we’re nothing he is the animal scumbag

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  • My god i dont even know you and im fuming..get rid as soon as hes gone either ring the police or get you and your kids out of there if you have somewhere safe to go xx

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  • Well I’d think it’s perfectly acceptable and smile. WOULD I FUCK. THIS IS NOT ACCEPTABLE. You need to report him to the police right now! Don’t ask if it’s normal, or what people think. Phone the police right now!!

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  • I’d show my kids that it’s no way for a man to treat a woman and I’d leave! In fact I’d make him leave!!! Horrible cunt!! Good luck xxx

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