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Private post please. It’s not really baby related but I need some advice. Me a…

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It’s not really baby related but I need some advice.
Me and my partner have a one year old together, while I was pregnant he wasn’t coming home most nights until around 3-5am mostly. It really took a toll on our relationship. One night I even found out he went to a girls house with a friend. I chose to believe him that nothing happened and we moved past it. Once my daughter was born he still came in at stupid times and I told him enough was enough, and he stopped for months. And then last night he didn’t come home from work, I woke up at 3am to find he wasn’t home, no phone calls or texts or anything to say where he was. I rang him and he said he was waiting for his taxi home and I could hear girls in the background. He said he was having a drink with some people he works with.
I just don’t know what to do, I can’t go through all this again. It tore me apart last time, I cried last night and today I just feel so down about it all.
He doesn’t help much our little girl. Tbh he ignores her a lot which I’m constantly telling him to put his phone down and give her attention. As for me, well I get zero attention tbh.
I feel like our relationship may be over and if these nights are going to start up, I don’t think I can do it.
I just don’t know what to do, my head is all over the place
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