Private Post Please Thank You. I’ve been dating this guy and his a great wonderf…
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Private Post Please Thank You. I’ve been dating this guy and his a great wonderful man. We’ve been dating for about six months now, he’s got a son who’s turning one next week and we’ve met. I have two kids and they get along fine 👌🏾more then fine if I may say which I’m thankful and grateful for ❤️ The only problem is he still lives with his baby mum 😒 I knew nothing of this when we started dating but shortly afterwards I notice he slept there some nights of the week which cause a fight between us and we broke up shortly afterwards. He apologised 🙌🏾 and explained that he only stays over 3 nights a week due to her having uni and waking up early morning and that his purpose of doing this is simply because of the child. I tried to keep an open mind and agreed which I feel stupid about doing now 😞 he reassured me whilst staying over there, always video called me. Uni has finished and lately his behaviour has changed he sleeps other her house almost every night of the week and sometimes avoid late night conversations… the following morning his excuse would be babe I drifted. He didn’t make much time for me lately and I started to feel like we we’re drifting so I popped the big we need to talk! I simply ask him if he thought the relationship between me him and his baby mum was appropriate or acceptable he answered yes 100%. His answer broke my heart because I didn’t expect that to come out of his mouth. Bottom line is I told him if that’s the case then we can’t be together because I can not continue being with a man who is still living in the same house he moved in with his ex-girlfriend whilst pregnant. He had the nerve to get mad at me so I told him to get out and never come back!! It’s been five days we haven’t spoken and he’s only effort was Hi 👋🏾 but I didn’t respond. I really love this man and so does my children i’m trying to stay strong but don’t know what to do. I really need some honest advice please help
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I was giving him the benefit of the doubt until the bit where Uni has now finished and he’s still staying there. He’s using you hun, you deserve better than this. Find someone who wants to devote his time to you and your children. I’m not saying he shouldn’t put his child first, but he should have his own place and have the child overnight if childcare is an issue.
Bit dodgy, there’s obviously something he’s hiding or not getting, why can’t he have the child at his parents and stay there or better yet get his own place? And maybe think of you and the kids. Think you done the right thing of telling him where to go x
Deffo not right, also is she’s claiming housing Ben, he should not be staying over at all!! You need to both sit down and talk about how u feel xx
Honestly hun you are better off with out what if one day she decided to tell you she been sleeping with him from day one if he cared about you enough and wanted you he of moved out and picked him child up and had that child over night if she had uni and to be up early xx
Just ask him if it would be appropriate if the tables were turned and you were living with your ex xx
It could be innocent but I’d react the same as you tbf.. I think the relationship has run it’s course hun x
Sounds to me he wants his cake and eat it x
If there’s nothing going on ask him can you go round? X