Private post plz Okay it’s a long one but so need advice or a major kick up th…
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Private post plz
Okay it’s a long one but so need advice or a major kick up the bum.
So a year ago I split from my partner off ten years we have 2 children together it’s been a very hard 9 months with my self An kids being homeless ect.but the past 3 months have been amazing buying my first home for myself.
10 weeks ago I needed work done in my home I have a school friend who got recommended to me.
He got in touch An came up to price the job as soon as he walked in we just hit it off we spoke lots he was telling me all about his life son An partner who he said he was leaving An had fallen out off love with An was only there for his child.
As the days passed we spoke lots by text,An phone calls,he would come down for a chat An cuppa ect.
Then it happen I slept with him I don’t normally do this noir is it in my character to do so.this is been going on for 8 weeks now he told me he loved me.i now find myself moody when he says he is coming down ect. He also doesn’t want me to meet anyone else or go on dates.
Guess the advice I am looking for is what the hell do I do I have tired not to speak to him I have asked him to not contact me but he said he can’t do that!!
All I know is that I am starting to get hurt,
We speak for hours daily An see each other 3 times a week .
I also said to him it’s not fair on his partner.
I am ready for the bash but really would like some advice
Thanks for reading
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Well in all fairness up until he has finished with his partner and moved out of the family home you shouldn’t be sleeping with him. You just said that its not your character but yet you have continued to do it. Just think you wouldn’t like this to happen to you or your children so why do it to someone else. I doubt you are the first he has done this to because if he wanted to let his partner he would of done already. He is using you and you are allowing it to happen. As you said everything is going good for you with the house etc why fuck it up for him because he wont leave his partner and even if he did he will just do the same thing to you down the line. No need to put yourself or your children through that. Just move on and if he wont leave you allow change your number, call police if he shows up at your door etc.
Advice – stop sleeping with a man thats got a family. Hes also using you. Hes having his cake and eating it because your allowing it. Both of you at fault xx
if I was in your suition I would ask him to come round, and just have a chat with him and put him straight if he really did want to be with you then he would of ended it with his Mrs, once hes donee that then think about getting into a relationship with him there’s no need to rush !š to me he sounds very pushy, like wants to see you but has a woman at home, If my partner was doing that to me I would rather him just say I’m not happy any more I’m not in love with you ect, instead of basically cheating on her no woman likes to be cheated on just like a man doesn’t! But just think about it !š just make sure you think about your self and your feelings ! it’s not just about the man it’s about us girls too !!š