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Sorry to bore you and it’s not baby related (I didn’t know where else to turn to) ๐Ÿ™ˆ
Long story short – my aunt A has a chronic illness etc. My other aunt B remarried one of her previous husbands. I wasn’t born when they were married the first time and I have no idea why they divorced before. Anyway years later, and several husbands later, they rekindled their romance and married. On their wedding day the husband said it’s a shame the family didn’t come. He then went on to say they would still be married if it wasn’t for aunt A making up rumours about him wanting to sleep with her years ago. He said to me well look at her now, she’s bed bound it’s karma. I was shocked about this and didn’t know what to say at the time. All I could say to him was ‘that’s not nice’. He tried to justify it and say yeah I know it’s horrible ๐Ÿ˜ anyway I didn’t know what to do so I decided I would mention it to aunt B as she was saying how much they’re in love and he’s the man for her etc unaware of what he’s saying about her sister. All she said was yeah I know he’s mentioned it before to me. There was me thinking it was him just being stupid and a slip of the tongue but apparently not. I decided not to tell anyone and I told his wife and that’s that; I kept it from people to prevent hurting them. Fast forward to now and the family are asking questions about why I’ve distanced myself from her husband so she told them all that I’ve been bullshitting and making stories up. She said I’m a shit stirrer even though she’s the one that told some family about this conversation and then said I’ve made it all up. I haven’t gone round telling everyone so I don’t understand why my names now tarnished. I’ve kept a dignified silence but now I’m just pissed off. I waited until after their wedding day because I didn’t want drama or to ruin their day to tell her. Do u think I’m in the wrong? What can I even do now? Sorry for the long post. Xx
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  • Sounds to me like she is trying to back him up and hide things maybe aunt a wasn’t such the bullshitter ?? Maybe aunt a mentioned the truth and got same treatment as you did. Just a thought x

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