Can I have a ppp? Sorry it’s long.. How many of you are step mum’s on this page? I need to know if you think I’m being out of order or not.. My son’s father and I have a brilliant relationship and are really good friends, so much so that he sees his son when ever he wants and we are invited to each others birthday events etc. He has been with a girl for almost 2 years, getting married in July and they have an 18 month old together. She messaged me telling me that my son could only have contact with his father if I communicated through her, and that if I didn’t stop contacting my son’s father she would make him let my partner adopt my son as she didn’t care who he went to as he isn’t hers. I was furious at this point and said stuff about her supposed to being a step mum and her reply was I will never look at him like that. and now I don’t want her anywhere near him. She is becoming his stepmum in July and she feels that way about him, why should I? His father agrees that she was out of order but said hopefully in time me and her will talk again and sort things out. Do you think I’m being unreasonable or over reacting? I don’t know what to do.