May I ask for a post please… Ok this maybe a long one so apologies in advance…

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May I ask for a post please…
Ok this maybe a long one so apologies in advance.
Ok, just wondering if anyone else has it is experiencing this and what would you do.
I’ve been friends with a group of girls for close on 20 years. All of whom have several children.
Partner and I took a very long time to conceive our child who is now 3… friends children are at least 5 years older.
Since having our little one the relationships between us have come somewhat strained.
I don’t here from them for weeks on end.. I know we are all busy with our lives but a quick reply to a text wouldn’t go amiss. I’m not asking for war and peace just a reply!
Met up with friends last night and feel like I no longer know them.
They brag and show off about how much they are spending on Christmas, and how much this costs and that costs and £300 on a bike for a 6 year old is not that expensive.
And that’s only one of the gifts…
Now please don’t be mistaken my child will not go with out in the slightest. I have reigned my spending in as I know it’s not needed.
Only 1 toy at a time can be played with.
Just don’t understand why and how they can make me feel so shitty about myself.
I’m finding that I don’t want to spend time with them as they make me feel so shit.
Not sure what I’m going to get from this but please don’t make me feel any worse than I already do…. 😔
I’m really considering cutting ties but fear I will be left with no friends at all 😭….
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