ADMIN MONITORING Can I have a ppp, Last night my son was taken into sick kids…
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Can I have a ppp,
Last night my son was taken into sick kids as he couldn’t breathe, he had to be given oxygen and had to have his lungs suctioned as they were filling with fluid,,,
The whole point in the post , I suffer from severe postnatal depression, and a personality disorder, my partner has a little girl to someone else and because of certain feelings caused by my depression I stay away from the little girl( intrusive thoughts about harming her) so to keep her safe i stay away. Anyway last night he could t come and be with me and my son while he went through all this last nigh because he chose to stay in the house with his daughter! I’m already paranoid that he prefers his daughter to his son( he Denies this) I really can’t take anymore! Please help I need some words of wisdom! No negative comments as like I said I have severe mental health problems, please don’t tip me over the edge. Thank you
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This is your issue. Not his. And you need to go get additional help from the doctors.
Although not your fault you have thoughts/voices about hurting his daughter. And he stays with you. The man needs commending not berating because he had no choice but to stay at home and look after his daughter when his son was ill.
My daughter often needs trips to the hospital, and I go with her and my husband stays with the other 2 kids. It’s completely normal and in no way favouritism.
It’s most likely part of your mental health illness that is distorting your thoughts and causing you to think that he prefers his daughter. Unless of course he has done something to prove it? For the intrusive thoughts, I can recommend a book called the Imp of the mind, it’s extremely helpful to read xxxxx
He couldnt leave his daughter at home by herself. 1 parent to each child. Completely fair
I do feel like the dad should of been there for him, unless there was nobody else to take care of his daughter. I’m sure he doesn’t prefer his daughter you just gotta trust him on that unless he starts treating the boy unfairly. I sympathise with you I really Do mental health problems are no walk in the park. But concentrate on your son as you are who is there for him at present. I’d say seek medical advice for maybe counselling or medication. Good luck and I hope your son is well soon and that you feel better soon too 🤗
Medical issues are a different story but… If my children werent well thier daddy would take the ill onr to hospital as i dont drive or if ambulance id go… But we have another child so someone would have to look after them and we dont let anyone watch our babies… It makes sense that 1 parent watches one while the other is with the other child… I wouldnt want to drag my other child out to hospital to be bored all day night because the other is ill… Although id prefer if i was the one at the hospital sometimes it possibly wont work out that way… You cant judge him based on not wanting to be with his son when he also has an equal daughter to care for
Could he not come because he was looking after his daughter or could he just not be bothered to come? I’m sorry you’re in this situation and that your little one gets better quickly
How old is his daughter? Was he looking after her at the time? I hope your lb is better soon!! X