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Can I get a pp please……bit long story will try and cut it short basically my…

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Can I get a pp please……bit long story will try and cut it short basically my husband ex has cause us so much crap everytime we had his kids over night five night outa seven we would end up with police, social workers and lawyer letters at my door to point I almost lost my children and almost lost my husband due to her saying we are neglecting and abusing her children and my children my son had a break down who was six at time due to accusations she made to police and soical workers to point he thought he was going to get took away he laying in floor in a ball screaming I still can’t get picture out my head now he’s going through so much my depression ain’t to controlled the now because it’s just getting in top me so bloody much. I wasn’t even sure if I was allowed my baby home at time due to it all and everytime husband kids were here my kids were catching alsorts off them including scabies it got that much we had drop over night contact just down to two kids and she was usein her oldest child to cause it all and get her make stories up together but husband was still seeing his child at his mother’s house every week. So carried on contact with the other two my children was still catching alsorts including new born who was born poorly we were still having social police and lawyers constant which was causing so much stress on my children and myself so my son social workers put a stop to her kids coming also house is far to small for all of us. I gave up my bedroom so his kids could have my room and I slept in living room aswell. So it stopped but myself and husband agreed no contact with the children unless his mother’s there untill everything calms down with her so things moved on still got load a crap saying I was gonna take her children off her as I love them more which never got said I have enough children myself so things calmed down slightly as in no police at my door but would get stupid visits off social with her saying things happens at husbands house had meeting with there social workers including ourselves they were just trying cause hassle constant so social decided to have separate meetings which we done but found out she told her oldest we were taking her oldest that weekend so social asked us to speak to oldest so my husband explain to his oldest that she couldn’t stay over night and co tactvhas to happen through her granny that he really loves her and will spend alday every week in that day if contact and hopefully in future he could start taking her over night we ended up getting lawyers letter not long after statin we told her we never wanna see her again or the other kids what was loads a crap and she said social said that aswell that we told them lucky enough social backed us up and told lawyers to was loads a crap so contact gone back to only when parents r about we took two children out during week but husband mother had disappear a hour and husband said we would keep two in town due to fact there babies and can’t be made to twist things we seen there mother but lucky enough husband mother was back and she tryed to cause alias a rubbish as we seen his oldest she came running over telling us so we are waiting in lawyers letter we know the oldest didn’t make it up at mil asked there mother she confirmed it. So today they come to house as they need go someone else house to pick things up who live round from me I wasn’t keen she was in house but didn’t see how stories could get made up with mil and fil being there. I had shower my youngest so went in and was showering her I heard mil and fil leaving so thought they took husband oldest which when I came out she was still in house so I took my baby upstairs and stated on messenger to husband about fact she’s here without them here which he didn’t care and caused us to argue only on messenger as don’t like kids see us arguing two hours later his mum and dad decides come bk she came up stairs asked if I was ok I said no as she knows that amount a crap his oldest and his ex causes when she’s left with us ourselfs I’ve had enough and can’t take it anymore she started shouting this is her dad’s house she has a right be here and I stated well no she hasn’t as social workers has stopped it due to all the crap etc she storms down stairs slamming doors shouting and bawling where my oldest son who’s disabled and sits in wheel chair and has anitexy problems were she got my husband child coat in slamming living room door and walked out mouthing about me and slammed the front door. They have stated all along they didn’t care what happens to my children as social workers stated to us it husband children are back in my house I could loose my children but his family keep mouthing his children will be in there father’s house and didn’t care what social workers did or do!!
Would I be I. Wrong to be annoyed and actually said something to mil as I was totally sick of I my children r my life!
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