Can I get a private post please… So I’m on maternity leave at the moment and a…
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Can I get a private post please…
So I’m on maternity leave at the moment and am due in 2 weeks. Have just come down with a stinking cold and I’m not sleeping at the moment either so generally feel like shit. So my partner asks me to do some food, you know, which is fine but he comes home from work just to find me on the sofa with the blanket. Then he’s like come on, get up, you’re doing food aren’t ya?
This has really pissed me off. Up until 2 weeks ago when I broke up from work I was working 50 hr weeks, doing all the cooking and cleaning and everything else. I don’t get help with anything and no one ever think to make me some food or bring me a drink or something.
Is it just me that’d be pissed off? He’s now gone upstairs for a sleep in a strop and refused to eat the food I had the decency to make despite his attitude. I just feel like all I’m good for is making food and clearing up after everyone
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I know exactly how u feel hun. My hubby is the same. When I confronted him he said it was my job. I told him I don’t get paid for this job it should be a joint effort. He still refuses do some things but I’m sticking to my guns. His clothes have been sitting in a pile for 2 months and I’m not putting them away, neither am I doing his socks or pants.
He’s a grown man, he can cook his own food, get yourself in some comfy pjs, throw your hair up, grab a hot cuppa, maybe a bag of choccys and sit on the sofa watching your tv soaps, let him huff like the baby he is. X
How’s he going to be when the babies here ? My God tell him to wake up anf stop being so selfish. Don’t let him walk all over you you need rest xx
Blend it up and give it to him in a cup.. I’d be telling him that your not a dog or a slave, he is a grown ass man and if he wants ‘mummying’ and getting away with being a lazy bastard to move back in with his parents and leave him to sulk like a little boy. Enjoy your nap and take care of yourself for the next two weeks 😘
Dont let it get to you hun.. sounds like one spoilt hubby to me 😜 i got one of them 😂 .. you get used to it over the years .. he will have a shock when lil baba arrives esp if its your first.. youll be lucky if your both awake long enough to eat food 😋😜 .. dont let it upset you especially so close to your lo arrival.. take care x
He’s old enough to make his own food! I’ve been ill for the past two weeks and if my partner said that to me I’d tell him do one!
You know what to do when he wakes up complaining hes hungry…. go to bed in silence tell he’s a grown man and where the oven is.
I was with someone like that your pregnant with his child he should be the one taking care of YOU! He’s meant to a man not a little boy! I am no longer with the man that was like that ! And neither should you Be! Weather your having his baby or not you don’t treat people like that!
If he’s being a dick, make your own food and sod him! He should be making your food, and you should be sleeping!
I would of made him something he really detests out of principle and made him eat it!
Wow! That’s not nice. You’re sick!! Wth! And then he didn’t eat it? That’s wicked. I wasn’t getting up in the first place.
Drop kick him.
Punch him in bollocks Hun