Can I have a post…I hope everyone’s having a lovely Christmas, I was until I c…

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Can I have a post…I hope everyone’s having a lovely Christmas, I was until I came home from Christmas dinner. My partner was invited but didn’t come as he left me in may and got with someone else straight away we got back together but won’t make amends with my family even though they invited him over. Anyways because I have went and he’s went to his mams he’s started with me because he wanted to have a drink and stay there all night which wouldn’t be a big deal if we didn’t have a 3 year old with autism who he has only seen 2.5 hours today in total. He left a hour before me at 11 and I left at 12 for dinner I came back at 3 expecting him to come back and spend the 4 hours before our sons bedtime with us, playing with his toys etc, he came back only to say he wanted to go back out and get drunk with his friend and brother, I shouldn’t have a say because I didn’t stay home with him and make dinner at home. He knows the reason I don’t do that is because I lost my Mam 4 years ago in November and I always had dinner at my grans with my grandad, aunt and uncle and son and he’s always had a invite. I feel harsh not having dinner with them especially when we all lost our Mam we put her photo on the table at dinner so it’s sort of like she’s with us. I can’t do that at his mams. I had said I would go to his mams after dinner but he was acting like a spoilt brat over text and I said I was only going if he was going to walk back with us seeing as it would be dark and it would be nice to spend some family time before bed but no that didn’t go down well so I went home. Then when he left he was on the phone to a girl I didn’t know who it was so asked and then he was nasty again over text when I rang him he was being snidey and who he was with were laughing (the girl was his brothers girlfriend but I’m not physic) I don’t have my Mam for Christmas, all my family just chill from the rest of the day so that’s basically what I’m doing now with my son until he goes to bed. Except I’m really annoyed and there have been a few other things and today he is treading on really thin ice and I’m not sure how much longer I can take any of this.
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