Can I have a post please? Me and my children’s father split up a few years ago w…

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Can I have a post please? Me and my children’s father split up a few years ago where we lived he wasn’t originally from.. We lived in the north and he’s from the south.. Anyway he would see boys every Saturday till Sunday without fail and then one day when he brought them home he told me he was moving back down south.. I was completely took by surprise I had no idea he was thinking about this, on the day he left he left while our 8 year old was still at school which made me sick to my stomach that he couldn’t wait till he had finished to say goodbye, I found out he left to move back 300 miles away and more ed straight in with his girlfriend so of course my first thought was he’s chooses her over our beautiful boys, any ways I was determined to not let it bother me and give them the role of both mother and father, he still had contact when he could afford to come up so in the end I decided we would move there so our boys could see us both only in the agreement he would give me 100% support by this time his girlfriend was pregnant, as I had no family down there as we are all northern born and bred so.. After a year of hell living down there.. No support whatsoever, constant lies I got depression where I had to see a counsellor and my anxiety was the worst it had ever been, so I had to make the hard choice for us to move back home.. I spoke to my 8 year old and he was happy either way.. So moved back and been here since May got our own house, settled in, my boys go out for dinner with my mam once a week.. His mam while down south never came to see boys as he told me “it’s your job to take boys to see grandparents not their job to visit” lol she’s 50 and very healthy and active…. So we have been here since May and he came up in August to take them on holiday for 11 days .. And he’s coming up at end of this week……….. Which I have found out tonight he’s coming up for 72 hours and next time will be Christmas 🤔😐 he also stops my maintenance on the months he sees them.. Which is fine when he sees our boys for a solid two weeks but it angers me when it’s only for 72 hours, now I know I moved back north but none of this would of happened if he didn’t move down south to his new girlfriends, it seems he’s just a telephone parent.. So is there anyway if we ever go to court they will order he sees them more? He works and told me he gets all new holidays in October but he’s saying he doesn’t have any holidays? 🤔 I hope this makes sense … I’m a very straight up person and I will continue to fight for my boys and not let him get away with this! 72 hours though 😠
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