Can i have a post please. Need some advice ladies I saw my cousins boyfriend in …
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Need some advice ladies I saw my cousins boyfriend in a pub this afternoon with another woman. I’m very close to my cousin were more like sisters but I don’t know if I should mention it to her or not incase it causes trouble. I didn’t know this woman at all she’s not a family member or anything like that and I’m pretty sure he saw me but he just looked embarrassed and pretended he hadn’t. He also sent me a few messages a couple of months ago saying I was sexy and stuff like that but because he’s one of those people who jokes around a lot I just thought he was joking but now I’m beginning to think maybe he wasn’t. Any advice on what I should do I told my mother about it and she thinks I should just stay out of it and not say anything which I’m thinking might be the best idea.
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I’m like sisters with my cousin too and if I saw this or her bloke txt me that I would tell her straight up. I would wanna know if it was me & you could cause more trouble by not telling her x
Forget staying out of it, he tried to bring you into it! If you are as close as you say then there should be no hesitation! Show her the messages and tell her everything, yes she’ll be upset but better to have you tell her then her find out through strangers or his phone etc…. or even the other womana
I’m really close with my cousin and if I was in that predicament I’d definitely tell her without a doubt. I’d just bring it it in conversation and say ey I’ve just seen ur fella in the pub with some woman is she someone in the family or something. And then see what she says cos she might know about it. But then if she doesn’t. U wasn’t trying to cause shit u was just trying to make sure he’s not taking her for an idiot x
Ask him who it was see what he says? If you think he’s lying then tell your cousin, might even be nothing but with him sending you messages to I’d of said something straight up joking or not x
If she his friend or family then there will be problem with telling her š he will tell the truth but if it was me I would of phoned her or took a pic š
ur mum is right. she could of been a friend or his family.
You should tell your cousin, she deserves to know her boyfriend is a lying bastard, also tell her about the texts. I hope you’ve saved them. She should walk away from this relationship as soon as possible. Only my thoughts and I’m a pensioner, so I’ve seen a lot š Good luck hon. x x