Can I have a pp please. I am a single mum to two kids. My son is 10 and my daugh…
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Can I have a pp please. I am a single mum to two kids. My son is 10 and my daughter is 2. I recently returned to work as I was struggling to pay my rent and the bills. I had been with my partner for 13 years before we split up in January. He always had everything in his name as he was the person who originally took out the mortgage etc. All to say our house sold for a lot of money which he pocketed all of. He’s very manipulative and has since brought a property mortgage free and he pays all his bills up front council tax, water etc so he doesn’t have many outgoings each month. I feel very bitter towards him but I’ve just accepted the situation and tried to move on creating an argument free happy environment for my children. The children are my only priority. All to say and sorry if I’m ranting (just wanted to give you some background information) I’ve now gone back to work part time and I’m really struggling. I have found a lovely childminder but my ex partner said she could be abusing my daughter and we would never know as she can’t speak (I have absolutely no reason to distrust this lady and she comes highly recommended) He said that the ladies son who pops in now and again could be a potential pedafile (he’s a first response paramedic) and seems really nice. I just feel he’s getting into my head and now I feel so unsure about leaving her and just want to give up my job! She’s been going a few weeks and lately really screams when I turn up to drop her off but I remember my son doing this when he went to nursery after a few weeks of leaving him there. The whole situation makes me so anxious and I just don’t know if I’m doing the right thing. I need to work but at the same time I feel that he’s only putting these things in my head because he likes to have control over our situation (he says she would be better off in a nursery as more people around) . I’m just wandering what other parents would do in my situation. Thanks for your help
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