Can I have a pp please. I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant with a little boy I ha…
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Can I have a pp please.
I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant with a little boy I have 2 other kids one 9 and one who was born sleeping (different dada to this baby) so when I found out I wS pregnant was a massive shock I was also ill the dad left but I text him othe day saying he wAs having a son now today we text he said he was only ringing etc to help me which I said it’s not me who needs help it will be the baby he will be supporting (I haven’t asked for a thing) he replied well he didn’t want the kid anyway and I can f myself he then said he doesn’t want to have anything to do with the baby and I let him know the door is open if he changes his mind he said he won’t !!
My question is would you text his family (never met) and ask if they would like contact when baby born even if he doesn’t ?
My 9 year old doesn’t see his dad or there family I have tryed but they said they might and never went ahead which makes me sad as all he ha blood related is me as I have no family etc so I want to at least try and see f this baby has that
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personally id try an reach out to his family, as they may want to see the child even if the father doesnt. atleast then you know you’ve tried an gave them the option rather than assume they’ll want nothing to do with the baby. but its whatever you feel is the right thing to do x
Aww such a shame.. sounds like your being a great mum and them boys are very lucky! Putting your little ones first I think you should do whatever you feel is the right thing to do for your boys. He will regret it and be the one missing out either way xx