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Can I have a pp please to whichever group. I’m not really sure what I’m asking f…

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Can I have a pp please to whichever group.
I’m not really sure what I’m asking from this post, I just need to vent and I have no one to talk to that doesn’t judge.
My partner and I moved in together last month with our 5 month old, we’ve only been together 1.5 years (fell pregnant very quickly unplanned) we worked out finances before moving in and we could afford 50/50. Since we’ve moved my tax credits have been cut by £300 and obviously I’m now struggling for money, I’ve spoken to him and he just gets cross and tells me it’s not what we agreed. There are days when he says don’t worry we will manage, and then days when he can be so vile and tell me I better be able to pay half. I’m on Maternity money which isn’t much. He works 17.30-2.30am 5 days a week and can be grumpy if he doesn’t get much sleep. He woke up pissed off today and we rowed about money. All I got told was I’m lazy, I told him I could afford this and I better have half the money next week for bills and rent or he wouldn’t be happy. I do all the cooking, cleaning, washing, shopping and raise our daughter. He plays PlayStation when he gets up, spends a bit of time with our girl but doesn’t do nappies or bottles or anything. I’ve told him I’m trying to raise a bit of extra money and he knows how awful I feel about this but all I got today was I don’t want your bullshit sob story o want the money. Please don’t tell me to leave him because it’s not that easy. I just feel like I’ve failed. My daughter deserves the world and I ant even afford to pay bills 😔😔.
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