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Can i have a pp please I have been with my boyfriend for foyr months. It may se…

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Can i have a pp please

I have been with my boyfriend for foyr months. It may seem like a short time but we got together and not long after i was attacked by my daughters dad leaving me extreemly ill. He was so supportive nomatter how many times i said id understand if he walked away he stayed by my side in hospital and helped when i couldnt move and even carried my daughter 18months up to bed when i was too weak. It ended up him ‘accidentialy’ moving in after a month it stopped. If he had no clean clothes it was my fault or lost something it was my fault. He is amaizing with my child ! As for with me he never puts the effort in for me or even speaks to me. I have explained that i alredy have an 18mnth old to look after and be there for and it is a demanding job especialy when im in pain every day and cant eat most days down to sickness (all down to attack docs working on full diagnosis) and that i cant be his mum too and i need to be treated like a girlfriend. He brings verry little or no income into the household. And we have never been on a date. I dont know what to do because as much as i love and need his help i cant feel like this it isjt fair on my daughter to have an upsett mummy all the time. I use to feel i can be on my own not ti be big headed but im a good looking girl and i would like to think i have a great personality. But i cant drink anymore because the assult caused alot of kidney damage. And i cant move very well without serious pain i struggle to get to The doctors and back. Also i live in a compleatly diffrent town to all my family and friends so as much as im fully supported by them all its hard being away. I live away by choice i have bad momories in my old town and being in this other town its been so much easier to feel myself so i couldnt move i do love it hear. I dont know what kind of advice im after. Maybe there are some other young mums out there that are single and coping with daily pain and illness that are on there own and are coping. I cant turn to many friends anymire because being ill means i struggle to get out and socilise and keep up with everyone. sorry its long thankyou for reading xx
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