Can I have a pp plz my fella decides to tell me today he’s leaving me for a woma…
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Can I have a pp plz my fella decides to tell me today he’s leaving me for a woman he’s been seein since Christmas I didn’t even kno about her till today I have my baby in July I’m so upset at the min I also have a 2 year old little girl to him he’s coming for his stuff later but don’t want my little girl to be upset shall I send her to my mums till he’s gone I’m devastated xx
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Get all he’s stuff and dump it on the front door step. Don’t even let him enter the house. What a worthless arsehole!!!
I wouldn’t embarrass myself by throwing his stuff outside, I would pack it for him properly & ensure my daughter was at my parents, I wouldn’t make a scene or kick off… when the dust settles you don’t want him to remember you were a dick about his stuff & have an excuse to be a dick about paying you child support, be the adult in this situation & handle it like one
Now don’t get me wrong with the above, I can only imagine how upset you may be about what he’s done, I just think you should stay mature & set a good example to your beautiful children on how to present yourself in any situation x
Id let my kids have special nanny time and before he cones scatter his shit across front garden or front of block depending I in a house or flat… Its raining here so that would be perfect, and I would leave the property via the window š
Send baby to nannas get a friend round put his stuff in bags leave in hall and have ready so when he comes let him takes stuff and fuck off. Then have a good cry with friend order a takeaway and pop on a funny movie <3 have a night with a friend or all the girls <3 wishing you tons of luck joy and prosperity in the months ahead. You will be just fine x
Send your little one to Nanny for a few hours. Pack all his stuff up in black bags so it can be a short and sweet trip for him… You’ve wasted enough time as it is!!
I feel so bad for you. What a horrible situation to be in! But yes I would send my little girl to my mums. Wouldn’t want her there when I punch him in the face and throw his shit outside xx
All will be ok. Life is hard but the only way is up from here! Keep strong and if you think it’s best for your little girl then you do that.
I would fold it all nicely into bags, cut buttons off shirts, legs off jeans, middle out of boxers, wash the toilet with his tooth brush and swap his body wash for hair removal cream! Place it all nicely on the front! Delete his number and bring your little girl up teaching her to treat people right! Stay strong and hold your head high xx oh and send the other woman a good luck card because he has done it once so will likely do it again x
Yes plus it gives you time to calm yourself kids don’t need to see it, don’t pack his stuff you’ll be doing him a favour make him do it whilst you sit having a glass of wine with a smile on your face don’t let him know he’s hurt you he doesn’t deserve that make it look like he has done you the biggest favour by getting his nasty cheating ass out of there yes it’s going to hurt like mad but he won’t see that hold your head up high with dignity and class because you know you deserve a whole lot more and he’s made you avaliable for a man whose going to see everything he took for granted and will adore you hun hang in there xx
Defo clean the toilet with his toothbrush šš. Awful situation but you don’t need someone like that in your life! Look forward to your new baby & your little girl that’s all that matters. Things will gradually get better in time it’s his loss do not let him back!! What goes around comes around. Good luck x
He’s already embarrased himself with the lack of morals, wouldn’t lower yourself to his level, pack his stuff and have it ready. Send daughter to nannies, and one thing to remember men expect woman to flip, to do nasty things and make nasty comments. One thing a man will never understand is a calm woman when he thinks he’s hurt her and nothing will even concern him more. Stay calm be the bigger person, you deserve better. Good luck
Firstly stay strong you can do this for you and your little girl … he is not worth it … take your girl to your mum’s, pack his stuff nicely (so he is in the house as short as possible) and leave it by the front door so he can grab it with a note saying that once everything has settled you will be in contact for visitation about your daughter and also to collect anything you may have missed … do not lower yourself to his level by screaming or making a scene and don’t ruin his stuff as you will regret it and he could possibly press charges for criminal damage … I know you are hurting but be the bigger person for you and your daughter you are the only two that matter… and if at all possible go and stay at your mum’s for a few nights so she can help with your daughter and look after you too … things will seem bleak now but you can do this xox lots of love and take care xox
If it was me I wouldn’t even let him into the house . You need to be strong I know it’s hard but it will be harder if you let him in. Leave a message on the front door say collect your stuff and you will be in touch about the kids. I would be going to my mum’s so when you are not there when he calls
Dont even let him see ur botherd.it will kill u but smile an be polite.what a horrid rat.cheating is terrible at the best of times.but while ur pregnant…hes no man at all an you an ur 2 kids are better off without him.good luck x
Cut up his things and place them neatly in a bag txt him there on ur porch no need to come in he won’t know a thing until he goes home to unpack š¤ stay strong he’s showing his true colours
Sorry to hear hun; men can be such sleaze bags. Have his stuff waiting for him out the front door. If you think it’s best for your little girl to go to your mums then go with it xx
Go easy as your heavily pregnant but yes send her to nanny’s what a twat he will be back in a month or 2 begging for you to take him back xxx
I’d burn his clothes outside or thrown them out onto the street. Or even better tel him he isn’t welcome to collect his belongings and to never contact you again x
I threw my exes stuff out the window in similar circumstances into the road lol n trust me the only one embarrassed was him, not me lol!! šŖ
Yeh I would let him enter the house, put it at the front door & tell him to hurry b4 the bin men Come!!
You can only get stronger ā£
How awful š Honestly I’d pack his crap and leave it outside.. Yes I would ask your mum if your little girl can visit until he’s been.. Just incase anything kicks off. Hope your okay xx
Send your little one to your parents and pack up his stuff for him and when he goes to leave wish him luck in his new endeavours. This is a very upsetting time i can only begin to imagine, but you also want to behave responsibly and try keep yourself as little stressed as possible. When he sees how calm you are itll be jokes on him! He might not want to behave like an adult himself and man up but you dont have to behave in the same way. He’s a worthless nob so dont use your energy throwing his shit about or embarrassing yourself by putting it on the door step. Be the bigger person and you’ll feel better in yourself for it. Here if you need to talk hun xx
Be the bigger person. Bag up his stuff for him and leave them near the door. Try not to cry. Don’t give him the satisfaction. Hope your OK x
Don’t let him into your house! Pack his shit and put it in the garden
Cut all his shit up n then through it on garden or just burn it x