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Can I have a ppp? May be long so please forgive me. I am 20, and have been with …

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Can I have a ppp? May be long so please forgive me. I am 20, and have been with my partner who’s 26 for nearly 3 years. We have our own house and we both work full time. I currently pay all the bills, and he splits his money in half as gets paid fortnightly and is on a lesser wage. I don’t go out much as I work and then want to be at home when I am off. He constantly says how I should go out with friends etc, which I agree with as I do get so lonely. Anyway, a few days ago he said he was going to a club tonight with his fellow managers at work as one of the guys was leaving. (I used to work there too). I asked if I could come as I have Tuesday off to which he said no as its managers only which I understood. He asked if I could give him some money to go out with as he hasn’t got any left (got paid on Thursday). Then he came home today saying how everyone including normal staff and people who left were now going clubbing. So I said oh that’s good then I can come as these are all my old colleagues I still see and get along with, and seeing as he says I need to go out and have fun I thought it’d be nice. So I started getting ready and he said to me I can’t go out as its his night out, to which I said well you stated I need to go out more, which I do. Anyway he refused to let me go, so I am sat home alone and lonely whilst he’s out having fun. My problem is, I pay all the bills and he wastes his money, I’ve checked the joint account and his withdrawn £100 which makes us short on our mortgage payment this month which I am really angry about. I just don’t know what to do. I feel he’s been really unfair and that I work every given hour I can to provide and that I can’t even enjoy myself even though he agrees I need to. I just don’t know what to do or feel and just feel very lonely 😞 xx
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