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Hi I’m wondering if I could get a private post? so my boyfriend gets 1600 wages…

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Hi I’m wondering if I could get a private post?
so my boyfriend gets 1600 wages per month. I think it should be family money for everyone not his and mine. Anyway He gives me 300/400 off it for rent bills food and our child. And says that money is to help him get to work etc! He has now gambled the rest of the money!!!! And then said it was his money he wanted it back!! And expects me to pay everything(I don’t work) he hasn’t worked for a few months before he started his new job and this was his first wage from new company. So I’ve been paying for him for months and he has also been taking money from my bank without me knowing for gambling for months and months then I keep finding out every week that he’s used it again for gambling. and he tells me he will give me it back when he gets paid then doesn’t then does it again then doesn’t give me it back. I’m so so fed up and don’t know what to do! I’ve tried hiding cards deleting all information online and somehow he keeps finding a way to use it!!How much do people think I should be getting from his wage to pay food/bills and to live on. I’m so broken right now with this gambling situation he takes whenever he likes then says I gave u money so stop moaning then goes in a huff calling me ungrateful !!!! Then apologised and says he’s sorry he won’t do it again he loves me and wants to make it work and I know he really does but he keeps doing all of this every month!!Has anyone been through anything like this? Don’t know why I’m writing in here just needed to talk to someone about it All I love him and want to make it work .xx tia
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