Can I have a ppp? My ex partner was a recovering drug user he was clean and clea…

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Can I have a ppp?
My ex partner was a recovering drug user he was clean and clear of everything. We went on to have a child. We split when our boy was 10month.
Fast forward to today our sons 8. The ex picks and choses when he sees our boy. I got told he was back on drugs so I’ve stopped all unsupervised contact. I would cut complete contact but my boy worships his dad.
Today I pointed out it was November he last seen his son and then rang Xmas eve. He’s now wanting to come up when it pleases him and gets mardy when I’ve plans. I pointed out it Xmas I’ve heard nothing from him so I’ll make plans without a thought for him.
I told him how I’ve received videos of him holding a crack pipe. He said What he does in his spare time has nothing to do with me. That I agree with but when he could be having drugs before seeing our son surely I’ve a right to be absolutely pissed off. Am I wrong to tell him that I don’t want him round my kids until he’s clean again? I made him prove and work with ss last time and they ok’d contact.
I go to work and provide for our son and from what I’ve been told he just spends his money on drugs. He’s a waste of oxygen and I don’t want this round my son.
Any advice and what to do is needed. Please no bashing
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