Can I have a private post please. Am I being selfish? My partner of 2 years can …
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Can I have a private post please. Am I being selfish? My partner of 2 years can be great he works hard for us and has done lovely things for the house ect. But he can be very nasty if i tell him how I feel says im fucked in head or calls me names. I do alot for him cook clean make his lunch washing buy him little gifts to cheer him up arrange days out ect he’s never done a night feed for our 7 month baby as ‘he works’ I look after his kid from previous every weekend as well as my own 2. The sex is shit. I never feel good enough there’s always excuses why we not sleeping together.. I blame myself because maybe I’m a bit overweight which has lead to me hardly eating and bullimia. But I’m Not gonna lie iv treated him better than anyone has. He always says how much he loves me and doesn’t wanna loose me ect and things will get better. Tbh he has had alot go on in his life. Lost alot of close people to him ect I think maybe he has depression. But he won’t acknowledge this. He defo not cheating as he home from work early always calls me ask if I want anything from shop way home and his phone is never secretive ect. I just feel so under appreciated. I’m suffering postnatal which maybe doesn’t help either. But I’m getting help. I just sometimes feel I’m here because life easier for him. He moved into my house and first time he lived with one of his kids. (He has 3 other different mums ) 🙈 am I a fool or do I just need to carry on being there and understand he’s going through hard times. Sorry for long post. Just feel so down in dumps. Xxx
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Think this is a hard one … depends on a lot of other factors and questions x when has he turned like this ? Has there been any major events when this happened? Have u thought about relationship counselling ? Decision is really Yours , he sounds abusive in parts but all of us can be in ways called abusive too x maybe try relationship counselling ? Do u think he may be non nasty if u do it In a more neutral environment ? X is it a relationship u want to try and save or r u just no longer happy and don’t think u can be x