Can I have a private post please ….. I am in a relationship and I have 2 youn…

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Can I have a private post please …..

I am in a relationship and I have 2 young children from a previous relationship and have just had a baby with my partner …. the baby is only a few days old and my partner doesn’t like my other children around the baby or asking to hold the baby … he will always tell the other children to ‘back off ‘ or ‘let the baby breathe ‘ if they are trying to give the baby a kiss , every time one of my other children walk past or go to sit next to they get snapped at ‘ be careful ‘ or ‘watch your legs’ or ‘ be quiet ‘ ….. my partner doesn’t like anyone else holding the baby or doesn’t take any advice as my partner feels he knows best …. my partner always feels cold so the heating is on constantly at a very high temp and my partner will cover the baby in lots of blankets and put Woolley hats on her inside the house and says I’m controlling if I disagree or try to say the baby doesn’t need it …. we have a dog who my partner thinks more of than my other children and gets treated better and my partner kissed the dog on the lips and lets the dog lick his face and then he will kiss the baby and because she is only 2 days old I’ve asked if he wouldn’t do that and he’s not happy saying it’s a family dog and doesn’t see what the problem is … he says I’m controlling and he has a right to do what he wants when it comes to his daughter regardless…. he doesn’t change he nappy or get her dressed as he says he can’t do those things …. he says he feels like he’s in competition with me and my other children to hold the baby … if I’m feeding the baby or have the baby in my arms if he says ‘ give her to me ‘ if I don do it straight away he says I’m keeping her away from him or if I let some one hold her when he wants to then he will kick off …. I don’t know if I’m being too sensitive as my hormones are all over the place ? I feel on edge and constantly trying to stop arguments kicking off between my partner and my young children all while trying to get over a difficult birth , which has annoyed him further as he has had to cook dinner for 2 nights as I’m struggling to recover quickly enough
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