Can I have a private post please.. I am so frustrated with family at the moment…
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Can I have a private post please..
I am so frustrated with family at the moment. So basically me and my partner had quite a strong relationship with my family before we had our little boy, it took us nearly 3 years to conceive so he really is a miracle to us. Ever since he has arrived we have got none stop shit. I wanted a week JUST A WEEK to settle at home with my boy ( we still live with my parents ) but no, the day after we arrived home they all come round, not respecting any of our wishes. They all seem to think they have a say in what happens in bringing him up like feeding, he’s 4 and a half months old and my nan don’t shut up about why I’m not feeding him yet, I want to do BLW but she clearly doesn’t agree, he’s not ready for food and I’m not feeding him until I feel he is ready. My nan will also get in my boys face and start taking pictures. I’m really funny about photos and unless someone asks for a photo then i think they don’t have a right to take any. It’s mainly my nan that’s winding me up. Like today me and my partner were just leaving to go out and he says hello and she completely blanks him. I think the way she is being is vile. I’m not sure if I’m being silly but I really am not making an effort with her any more. It’s literally ever since my boy has arrived that everyone bar my parents and his parents that have an issue with the way I’m bringing him up. It makes me feel completely shit to be honest. Anyone else have problems with family? Like it literally puts me off having another baby until me and my partner get our own place.
There is much more to this than I have wrote but I would be here all day if I had to write it all down.
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Shouldn’t you wait until you have your own place before you have another anyway?
It’s not fair to burden your parents and take over their own. You shouldn’t have kids until your financially stable and if yous haven’t got your own place that suggests you aren’t so having another child is completely unfair.
Government guidelines say that a baby should be 5 to 6 months before they start on food away so your right your baby is still a little to young to have food, your baby is your baby and you shouldn’t feel bad, tell family that you don’t want pics taken of your baby, you are the parent and what you say goes, just tell them to but out, that what I’m going to do if anyone from my or my partner family try telling me what to do x
I know exactly how you feel!! If you want to private message me to rant and express how you’re feeling feel free, I will happily do the same back ššš» x
If you dont want their interferences move out. Their house. Their rules.
Or am I missing something here?
Its your nan just ignore her I would give anything to have my nan here to tell me off! Time is gold just laugh her off and enjoy your baby xx