Can I have a private post please: I split with my bf a few days ago after 5 yea…
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Can I have a private post please:
I split with my bf a few days ago after 5 years. He said he feels we have grown apart, we have had a tough 5 years having to go through court to see his children, his ex had him arrested on false allegations so he had to go through criminal court to (found not guiltily) filling for his divorce with his ex. It’s been constant and we been through so much together. I never saw this coming, I have felt pretty down in myself recently and I guess I did stop making an effort in my appearance and that prob has something to do with it. I just don’t no what to do I feel empty, sad, lonely etc. I’ve moved out and moving back into my mums 😞 how do people deal with it? How do you move on? People say il find someone else but will I love them like I loved him? What if no one else wants me? I miss him so much. He said he still wants to be friends.
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I absolutely guarantee that time makes it easier – I know you won’t buy that now but I promise, every week it’ll hurt a teeny bit less – I’m not making this up!
Keep busy , surround yourself by positive stuff, treat yourself, take each day as it comes and promise yourself every new day will be easier and better than the previous one.
It’s so hard but I guarantee it will get so much easier 😊
Life is hard enough but don’t give up!!! Women have 2 go through in life we deserve support & love kindness just remember life’s too short 2 be unhappy u never know what’s round the corner” everything happens for a reason & things can only get better be strong babe move on even if it’s alone you’ll never know you can do until you’ve done it good luck with everything 💖 Xxx
I would highly recommended cutting all ties if you want to get over him, and there’s no need to even think about getting into a new relationship any time soon. I was absolutely heartbroken when me and my ex split up, but it was only a couple of months before I realised I was better off without him. Now it’s been six months and I definitely can’t see myself wanting to be in any kind of relationship for a long time, if nothing else I want my bed to myself :’)
I have been there I got married may last year and my husband was sleeping with my maid of honour behind my back she was my best friend!! He was so nasty to me when he left 8 months ago said he hated me then loved me and he still wanted us to be friends and do stuff and me being stupid did I begged for him back for months and as soon as I stopped he was like why ain’t u asking for me back I think he liked the fact of two people wanting him I have now realised I am better off without him!! And deserve better! It will get easier xx