Can I have a private post please
My 5 year old has turned into a nightmare so demanding aggressive violent we are at our wits end with him. He kicks off at the simplest things like can you brush your teeth for bed? And he goes off in one he says everyone hates him he hates his family screams till he’s blue in the face and gets himself in some state. We have tried everything naughty step, put to bed, sitting trying to talk leaving him to come out of his mood but he just doesn’t stop he always comes back for more. Coming to his level and he lunges for uz. He’s a sweet happy boy at school teachers praise him but at home he is like the hulk. I have a little boy at 1 also I don’t want him picking up the big ones habits and we don’t make a difference with them we have lots of fun as a family but when he doesn’t want to do what he’s been asked to do all hell breaks loose. I don’t know where the violence comes from he doesn’t play or watch violent things he is always outside on his bike or with a football so he isn’t seeing violent things on tv or computer games. I’m broken hearted that he tells me he hates me 😞 I just want my boy to be happy but he needs to know he can’t rule the roost. Any suggestions would be great. And he is definitely not spoiled we are are hard working parents but just enough to get by. Please no bashing. Sorry it’s a long post Thanks in advance.