Can you please post.
I have 3 kids with an ex. He sees 2 on regular basis but has only met baby once (almost 1) I’m sick of this. It should be equal! I’ve said we should focus on the baby before he gets more contact with the others but he’s saying he will only see the baby if he can start having overnights only with the older 2 and demanding holidays with older 2. I’m torn! He booked a hol behind my back despite never having overnight. I don’t feel I’m being wrong by saying let’s focus on sorting baby then look at a long term plan that suits all 3. Help